Masked and distanced but pleased to be there. Audience at Ayelin Parolin’s "WEG" dance performance, 12 September 2020, during the Atelier de Paris Indispensable ! festival. Photo ©
Benoïte Fanton
As I write, it is still early and, as nearly every weekday morning, the little kids downstairs are off to pre-school. I hear them rustling around on the landings, tugging on their wraps. I hear hurried Dads chivvying them down the stairs, hear them calling up “Bisous, Maman”, hear Mamans calling down, “Bises, ma Chérie, Bises!” La Bise or le bisou, used interchangeably, means “a kiss”, connoting “a little (viz., widdle, liddle, wittle) kiss(ie)”. It’s sweet sound in the morning and cheering. We need a little cheer too.
The corona stuff is getting old.
Though ICUs still have capacity, the Paris region and France in general are experiencing significant rises in both Covid-19 infections and hospitalizations. While the median age of those sick unto death, dying or dead, is 60, infection is spreading mostly in institutional settings such as workplaces and health establishments among 20- and 30-somethings. Up to now children in school are a negligible factor.
Authorities made masks mandatory in work places in early September. Lately they have taken marginal actions such as shutting gyms, requiring bars and cafés to close early and encouraging distance appointments. While able to take quick quarantine action thanks to institutional organization and firm public support, delays in producing test results - largely thanks to an un-thought – through free test-on-demand option – has seen authorities struggling to set up a reliable tracking system. Also, political concerns about privacy, some fears, especially among the young, of the lifestyle consequences of testing positive and assumptions both about the efficacy of technology and about what the public will bear, mean that the smartphone app hasn’t produced any miracles and that obvious moves such as collecting customer names and numbers in cheek-by-jowl gathering places such as cafés, bars and restaurants has not been tried.
In spite of the shortcomings, the rise, as in Italy and Spain, is something of a puzzle.
As far as I can make out, despite caterwauling and recrimination, France’s goddamned gumint is as stolidly competent as New York’s or Korea’s or Germany’s. Indeed, weren’t he such a caricature of an empathy-challenged nerd, President Emmanuel Macron’s faith in the power of solutions through strategic fact-based analysis and well-organized public action would almost be enough to make him liked.
Alas, unable to understand sociocultural issues more complex than those represented in an Isaac Asimov novel systematically gives people grounds for distrust of his good sense and judgment. For instance, Macron recently remarked that critics of his planned 5G or 6G or 7G – whatever – wireless net rollout were a passel of Amish. It is simply beyond the poor fellow’s power of imagination that some be-hatted, bonnetted organic farmers might actually have a notion of a “good life” that doesn’t include a smartphone and invasive advertising. Nor does it occur to Macron and his buds from engineering school that it is important that France has a lot of Amish-types who don’t wear bonnets and big hats perhaps, but who do frame the rigors of lockdown, unpaid hard work and lifestyle inconveniences as acts of human solidarity and not just enlightened self-interest.
Macron’s lack of imagination depresses, but it isn’t unique to France. Imagination, here and throughout the world, seems to be cowering out ce moment bizarre in sub-basement level 13, to the left of the abandoned tool-room, in the corner, not too far from the big rusty crack where the Terminator burst in from the future in the early 80s, under the moldy poster of Munch’s “The Scream” and the tattered 1956 Playboy centerfold.
It’s even harder to blame the bloody-minded Gallic masses than the goddamned gumint for the Covid Redux. Of course, in the same way that Charles De Gaulle disclaimed responsibility for his political failings as the country’s tendency to make too many kinds of cheeses when one or two good one’s would do, citizens dismiss vexations they don’t want to be blamed for by denouncing the inconscience et indiscipline des Français. However, as my teenaged daughter used to delight in observing, blaming the concitoyen is just a harmless way of burning off the cynicism and doubt generated by all the investment in Amish-style notions of citizenship. Any old walk to any old cheese shop in any diversely ethnic neighborhood is on the whole an object lesson in a public-spirited health and hygiene conscience et sérieux that most respectable stereotypes could impute only to Germans.
Different kinds of distance. Simon Senn finds a fit with Arielle F’s virtual body for the Covid-time Zoom-live performance “Be Arielle F, 2020” at Lafayette Anticipations, Echelle Humaine dance performance festival, 23 September 2020. Photo © Mathilda Olmi
Since I shuffled back to Paris round about the first of September, I’ve been in constant attendance at two public schools and a teeming university, made frequent visits to bustling open-air and inside markets and supermarkets and public agencies, and, of course, traveled in over-crowded trains, buses and subways. So far, putting aside the usual suspects, the yahoos guzzling beer, smoking and yakking in the little urine-soaked niche near the betting shop, I’ve been the only one I’ve observed who has sometimes not worn a mask, even in the street. Also, for the record, I’ve been to five different performance venues, each with its own architecture and spectator-reception challenges – Atelier de Paris, Théâtre de la Bastille, La Scala Paris, Palais de Chaillot and Lafayette Anticipations – and eye-balled protocols and executions. Especially impressed by the efforts of the Théâtre de la Bastille, which opened with a strong production of Nathalie Béasse’s excellent Aux Eclats, and which has been designed for everything but non-intimacy and distance of any sort, I’ve seen nothing anywhere if not thoughtful application of the guidelines carried out by thoughtful people anxious to ensure the health and safety of others and of themselves.
So, no, it’s not the bloody-minded masses or the socially Amish among us to blame, either.
And, if it’s not the citizens and not the government to blame for the Covid Redux, I’ll blame la bise, point the finger at le bisou.
Like any kiss, large or small, une bise is not, is never just a kiss.
Neither love not hate, nor ever quite neutral, la bise is process, not thing, gerundive, not noun, an approach to the business and culture of life. Call le bisou, an “elan de bise”, a “kiss-drive”, toward a certain type of social entanglement whose closeness may or may not become intimacy, élan de bise always tends to a closeness that is intrinsically un-Covid-time-adapted.
Elan de bise may be unique to this particular culture but it is not the only socio-cultural drive in existence. My own American Gothic-style upbringing includes a drive toward tragedy, an élan that pushes me toward tragic (self-exculpatory) distance. The motive power of both is as enduring as it is strong and subtle. Even after 30 years of deliberately living elsewhere and otherwise, I was brought not too terribly long ago to hovering dry-eyed over my dying mother and, as adieu, squeezing her cold, papery hand but once and at that lightly. Elan de bise has been around a lot longer than the corona virus and is a lot more motivating (and socially important) than government health and safety regulations.
La Bise has force enough to reign among adopted Amish such as my dear old friend Uwe and I, as well as among just plain family and friends.
Théâtre de la Bastille management and staff made difficult decisions to make enough distance to make way for real theater performance in this otherwise closely-knitting venue. Scene from the premiere of Nathalie Béasse’s “Aux éclats”, 14 September 2020. Photo © Jean Louis Fernandez
Uwe invited me to his post-lockdown picture show in mid-Summer – the first time I’d seen him since lockdown … Uwe! Tracy! Super! Bisou, bisou! Ach! Zut! O! Man! Sorry! Ahh, well! Then, here’s a rub: Can a bow, a shouted remark, an arm in salute, be enough emotional satisfaction for an adult whose little piggy-toes you once bisoued to an ecstasy of coo and gurgle? Who can be sure? Conflicted, Uwe’s Juliette, his Martin and his Agathe, his friends, children and my acquaintances spent the whole evening desperately grasping for anti-Covid hygiene, but grappling mostly with each other, stumbling into each other with every clumsy elbow bump, spattering each other with every sentence of ever-closer-to-the-ear commentary, spewing subtle poison with every airborne hand-to-off-the-nose-mask kiss.
Elan de bise rules communities and neighborhoods as much as families and friendships.
My ear had been missing the “Bisous, bisous, Maman” of little Jena from the second floor. She’s usually an enthusiastic one. I know the parents Marie and Charlie hardly at all and probably won’t ever. But we’re neighbors and, among other things, we’ve done co-op general assembly and ce moment bizarre together … I went down and knocked at their door. Marie opened. Before either one of us could utter a word, a bathed, pajama-clad Jena, shouting “Bisou, bisou”, sprang from behind Marie. I fell back a little and, to keep the little brute at arm’s length, rather tenderly laid my hand on her head. I do like little kids; their naiîve enjoyment of life is infectious. I was glad to see Jena.
By now Jena’s used to what she probably thinks of as social baulking, so, like an especially big and inquisitive kitty-cat, she dropped the bisou-bisou and hung in the social distance between us as we chatted. It was only when I was leaving that I realized I had spent the whole time stroking Jena’s hair! I “forgot” to wash my hands until well afterwards. What sort of rational monster thinks of washing his hands after stroking the freshly-washed hair of a out-going, vivacious and sweet pajama-clad toddler?
Through in dignant form, the toddler’s “Bisou-bisou” also rules relations with big society, the miscellaneous characters that people one’s life – from supermarket cashiers to gardeners to work acquaintance and bureaucrats to landlords to local politicians to members of the gym – as well as with folks one reads about, hears or sees in life’s background, but only really meets by coincidental dribs and drabs.
I finally decided to go back to the gym last Saturday. When I got there, pretty early in the morning, Michel, the owner, was just locking the doors. Seeing me, being rather of the inconscience et indiscipline des Français school of social philosophy, Michel launched into his usual denunciation of France, the French, incompetent government and tax-gobbling bureaucracy. Just as he believes instinctively that his imitation of my accent is a comic masterpiece we both must surely enjoy, he believes that I, as an American-born, will sympathize with his criticisms of France and “the French”.
Both masked up – noses at a notional but friendly, normal, social distance of an inch and a half – Michel denounces and I lament the Closing of the Gyms, the latest plague to descend Ófrom on high. I pull away from Michel as I say I understand all the same what the government had to contend with and that, look-you, we are damned lucky to have rational government, anyhow. I lean forward, he leans forward, I touch him on the shoulder and wish him courage! as he hops into his fancy car. Michel, not to speak of the ungrateful gimme-mine trainers he has not thrown to the wolves, must be under awful financial pressure. That’s what I had told him. Also, that I’ll be back.
In fact, we’ll all be back. Back because, maybe it’s true, the elan de bise is to blame prolonging the national agony. But, then, it’s surely one of the big reasons to come back, too.